Showing posts with label Family Fun. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Family Fun. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

Holiday Review: Bluestone Wales

Early last month I had the most amazing opportunity to review Bluestone Resort in Wales.  We had a holiday planned last summer in Wales and our car broke down the day before we were to catch the ferry. Travel Insurance wouldn't cover us (they'd only get us on the next ferry, which was impossible without a car) and we lost every penny we'd paid on our holiday not to mention the cost of repairing the car.  The kids were devastated and there was nothing we could really do as all our spending money went on the car repair.  2012 went down a pretty shitty year as a result.  Having just moved I had figured a holiday was out for this year, but then this opportunity came up and I felt like it was karmic justice or something.

Tenby Beach
We took Stena Line from Rosslare to Fishguard.  It was a fairly uneventful journey and we had a lovely and reasonably priced breakfast on board in the Stena Plus lounge.  The lounge was great and I would definitely pay the money for it next time we travel on the ferry.  There were movies for the kids, a kids snack table, colouring supplies and even the ability to borrow Nintendo DS consoles to play while onboard.  They were kept very busy! My only complaint is the lack of baby changing facilities on that level, seems like a very simple thing to rememdy (install a changing table on the wall) as anyone with a terrible toddler knows carrying them up two flights of stairs with a stinking nappy is no fun at all!

Mark at the Adventure Centre
Bluestone was less than an hour from the port and is a simple and straightforward drive. We arrived and checked in but told we couldn't actually go to our cabin until 4pm.  This was the worst part about the whole trip. My little man had been awake since 5am and needed a nap so bad it wasn't even funny. I asked if an exception could be made but apparently not.  The weather was scorching and I was very worried about him getting overheated/tired and having nowhere to put him down or just relax for a few minutes.  We ended up walking around the village and checking out what was on offer.  The kids all played in the adventure centre for a good while and really enjoyed it.  There was lots for all ages. A baby play centre, bouncy castle, games etc with bigger slides and fun places for older kids.  There were also some excellent rides for the more adventurous kids and adults, high ropes, the "drop" and a giant swing.  It was very cool and we had to drag the kids out!  We walked around the village which is lovely, there's a bakery which sells the most amazing local ice-cream, a pub, an excellent treehouse playground in the centre of the village which was supervised and allowed parents to chill with a coffee at one of the picnic tables overlooking it.  The kids were quite literally in heaven!

The girls after their spa day!
We finally got to our cabin at 4 and were stunned to find it well kitted out and beyond our expectations.  Beautiful bathrooms, comfy beds, two flatscreen TV's - one upstairs with beanbags for the kids - and one in the main living room downstairs.  There was a patio with a picnic table, a beautiful kitchen with everything you could possibly need and more.  There was a cot and highchair in the house and it was plenty spacious for our family of five.  The showers were strong and we had absolutely no complaints.  It really is an amazing base for a family, you can really feel at home.

Medieval Night at The Yard
We headed for dinner that night at the buffet in The Yard, it was lovely.  I'm a food snob, so I wasn't overly impressed, but then I never have been at a buffet.  It's standard mass produced food, but the kids all love it and it looked like everyone was enjoying themselves.  It's a lovely setting and no one bats an eye at the noise or mess your kids are making. Really felt family-oriented and the kids enjoyed the play area.  We headed to a welcome night afterwards which featured some family entertainment.  I groaned inwardly as we went, but I was pleasantly surprised.  The entertainers were absolutely brilliant with the kids and quite talented to boot.  Being a classically trained singer, I am quite critical, but was extremely impressed with the quality of the voices and music.  The kids were completely engaged and it put us in a great mood for the week to come.

Welsh Night Kids Entertainment
The next day we went to check out the Blue Lagoon, an incredible water park and pool next to the resort which is free to use for guests.  The best part is that from 9-10am, it's closed to the public and open to guests only.  We had the whole place to ourselves most mornings, the kids had a ball.  The slides are brilliant and there is a wave pool that goes on every hour that had everyone squealing.  I didn't bring the little man to the pool as I was worried about watching all of them, as they're not the best of swimmers, but if I had have been more comfortable, I know he would have absolutely loved the toddler and baby areas, they looked like loads of fun.  This was the kids favourite part of the week.

Mini Safari
We were booked in for all sorts of activities some of which suited, some which didn't.  The staff are absolutely wonderful, everyone we encountered was extremely friendly and accommodating. It was absolutely no trouble to switch the kids into activities they would like better.  They got to go pond-dipping, try archery and go on a mini-jeep safari.  Our second night was Welsh night and featured some fabulous food (beef wellington, yum!) and entertainment.  Again I couldn't get over the quality of the entertainment, the kids were quite literally mesmerised. A bluegrass band took over later and they were incredible, extremely talented and totally fun.  Would have loved to stay longer, but tired kids are tired kids! 

Pond Dipping on the Lake
The girls got to have a spa day which they adored.  They got their nails and toes painted as well as getting their hair and make-up done.  The ladies at the spa were just lovely and treated them like princesses.  I thought the pricing was very reasonable for what they got as well.  On the last day I to got to enjoy the spa and tried out all the various steam rooms, saunas, pool and so forth.  It was so relaxing and lovely to have a few minutes to myself.  Medieval night was another highlight for the kids.  We had a medieval banquet at The Yard (more buffet food) and they were entertained by a show that they absolutely loved! Again the entertainers impressed and got everyone involved, have to say I quite enjoyed it myself.

Mark at Tenby Beach
We managed to cram in a morning at the most beautiful beach in Tenby.  It was just lovely, the girls had a blast playing in the sand and splashing in the waves.  Mark had never been to a beach and really enjoyed it.   It's a beautiful blue flag beach only 15 minutes away, well worth the visit if you can squeeze it in.  Again the staff were so helpful with directions and getting us there.  Such a beautiful place on all levels.



The return on Stena Line was great as well. The stewardess at Stena Plus Lounge remembered us and had saved a lovely area for us, which I thought was a nice touch.  Again lunch in the lounge was delicious and quite reasonable. Such an easy way to travel compared to flying. No long waits, full service, able to move around etc etc. No complaints at all.

It truly was a jam packed week and so much fun for all of us.  There truly is something for everyone there and I know for a fact we will be going back next year!  I love that it's so family oriented and the kids are catered for in every aspect.  It's rare you find somewhere where all the staff are so wonderful.  I really have no valid complaints at all other than the delay with check-in.  When we go again, I will not be doing the all-inclusive option, as I did feel overall the food was a bit of a letdown.  It was stodgy and not the healthiest and I think you'd be better off booking a few of the theme nights but going self-catering otherwise.  For any family looking for an easy holiday, there is no doubt in my mind that this is the perfect place.  If you stay for a couple of weeks, there is so much to do in the local area as well that would really make for an amazing break.

Disclaimer: Travel, lodging and activities were provided at no charge, but this review is all my own opinion and observation. 

Edit: I've since been informed that there IS an early check-in option at Bluestone, which if you're on that ferry is definitely worth availing of! :)

Monday, April 22, 2013

Money Monday: 10 Ways to Reduce Your Household Spending

BudgetToday - in an effort to get me blogging more often and offer some help in these tough times - starts a new feature called Money Monday! 

I haven't talked much about budgeting here, but it's something I've learned much about in recent years.  The Celtic Tiger bit this family in the ass as much as it did anyone else.  Mostly it was our own fault but a few years ago we realised we were in trouble and got a plan together to pay off our debt. It has been hard. We got rid of one car and my husband cycled to work. We haven't taken a holiday since 2007 and we axed health insurance. We cut all non-essential spending and got a big lesson in day to day frugal living.

We essentially pay rent twice, once to our landlord and once to our debt. The good news is there is a light at the end of the tunnel.  We will have our debt paid off in the latter half of this year and I thought it might be interesting to reflect back on some of the changes that made substantial differences to our savings! Hopefully there might be some ideas you can apply to your own situation. If you're lucky enough not to be feeling the pinch, perhaps it's a good idea to look at your finances anyways.  When we pay off our debt there will be a huge portion of disposable income again but we plan on putting most of it away. They say you should have a six month emergency fund (as in six months worth of salaries) available at any given time, so our next step will be to build that up.  Then of course there's the pipe dream of building our own house some day. Time will tell!

So here you go, ten things that helped us cut spending, from the small to the large. Some will be obvious, some not so much.  I plan on continuing this with a series of posts on frugal meals, menus and ideas. Hope it helps!

1. Evaluate your Insurance Policies
Check all your insurance policies. Are you getting the best rates? Shopping around on insurance can save bundles. I've found No Nonsense to be the best for car insurance for us and AA will generally beat anyone on home/contents insurance.  

Make sure that you are not over insured. This can greatly increase your premiums. Has your car decreased in value? Then update your policy to reflect this. Remember they will only pay out the market value at the time of an accident, so it's not worth paying extra for something you won't get.  The same goes for contents.  It's worth making a list of what you own and it's replacement cost. We found we were over-insuring by almost thirty thousand euro.

Look into increasing your excesses.  Do you have an emergency fund or money set aside and available?  If so, it's worth considering an excess increase.  This can drastically reduce your premiums.  If you have a thousand euro available at any given time, increase your excess to that amount and watch the savings come in on your premiums.

Do you need all your insurance policies? We cancelled our health insurance, which I realise is not an option for everyone, but given my husband's recent treatment with the highest VHI company cover, (he wasn't treated any different than public patients, no private room, priority or anyting) and it was not worth forking out the money for the rest of us (his company pays for his) as thankfully, we are relatively healthy to begin with.

2. Check your bank fees
It's no secret in this country that the banks are racketeers when it comes to fees, but there's generally room to get around these.  For instance Bank of Ireland won't charge fees if you have a certain amount of online transactions in a quarter.  They are tricky though, their quarters don't align with the calendar months and they don't advertise their dates, so find out from your branch.  Look at switching accounts.  Banks are losing customers left right and centre so most of them are offering competitive switching packages. 

Look into credit unions!  Credit Unions are amazing, I love them. There are no fees, they still care about customer service, they still have tellers, they open on Saturdays and late one night a week and they are much more generous with loans.  Most of them offer budget accounts and free financial advise as well.  If they did credit cards and mortgages like they do in America, the banks would seriously lose out.

'meal planning' photo (c) 2009, Liz - license: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0/3. Plan Your Meals
This is a huge one.  I cannot even begin to tell you how much I save when I do this dilligently. I cut my grocery budget from almost 200 euro a week down to about seventy if I'm good. That's a family of five with one in nappies.  Every Sunday I sit down and plan out meals  for the week.  I look in my freezer, fridge and pantry and see what I already have that I can use and plan at least three meals around that.  Then I check the sales at all my grocery stores for the week and plan meals around that.  I write up a specific shopping list and STICK TO IT!  With the exception of a mid-week egg and milk run I try not to deviate from the list and my grocery budget remains low.  Initially this would take me about two hours a week, but these days I can knock it out in twenty minutes.  I will probably write a much more specific post on this later this week and lay out how I do it and some tips and tricks.

4. Check your Beauty Regime
Let's be honest, lots of us got used to regular Celtic Tiger facials, manicures and pedicures. Perhaps we can't live without our premium cosmetics? Maybe we need a professional colour every six weeks?  I'd urge you to really reconsider these options.  I used to use Clarins and in a concession I switched to Liz Earle but after things got really hard I switched to plain old coconut oil. I use it as cleanser and moisturizer and my skin has never looked better. Cost? 6 euro per quarter. I kid you not.  I have also cut out professional colour and generally only get a hair cut once a year or so. The salon is out, I do my own manicures and pedicures and any other treatments I might need.  I have also experimented with making my own products at home with great results.  It's really a matter of prioritising here, you can still look good on a budget. What's more important? Your hair now or your finances down the line?  It's much easier to gradually cut back than to have to go cold turkey if something unexpected happens down the line.

5. Consider your travel expenses.
Try and cut travel expenses as much as possible.  Do you need two cars?  Can you cut down daily commuting? Compare the cost of the school bus with the cost of petrol and wear and tear. You might be surprised to find the bus works out much cheaper in the long run.  Schedule errands to go around times you will already be in town.  If you have to drop a kid to practice, schedule your grocery trips around this so you're not running out more than once.  Make sure your tyres are properly inflated, don't carry any excess weight in the car, keep windows closed etc to make sure you get the best mileage you can. Carpool whenever you can.

6. Cut down your reading costs
'Bookworms' photo (c) 2009, Thomas Mueller - license: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/2.0/ I'm an avid reader and was spending a fortune on books, so this category made a big difference to us.  Do you read the newspaper daily?  How much is this costing?  Consider getting a digital subscription or the Guardian app (a one off fee for unlimited news.)  Consider getting a Kindle.  You will still be able to buy books but at a substantial discount, plus you'll have them with you all the time and the environmental impact is much less.  You can also subscribe to magazines and newspapers on the Kindle for a very good price.  Consider using the library as well. It's free and often has a great selection of movies and music as well.  If you can't find the books you need you can always get them ordered in or borrow from other libraries.  We are lucky to have a great system here.  Another option for bookworms is Book Mooch.  You can put your books up and when people request them you get points to use to get other books.  It's a great system and has lots of worldwide fans.

7. Monitor your Utility Spends
Have you shopped around for the best plans?  Sites like Bonkers.ie and Uchoose.ie can help with this.  Do you really need a landline? Most people use their mobile for most everything these days and with most providers offering competitive packages to suit various individual needs. If you make international calls, check options like Rebtel and Skype. Look into the various tv/internet packages as well, as these can work out a lot cheaper than having a landline connection.  It's also worth keeping an eye on your electricity usage.  Many libraries will lend out a monitor for two weeks so you can see where you are wasting energy.  Personally we found fans on the oven or in the bathrooms to absolutely eat electricity and so avoid them as much as possible.  Try and hang out clothes instead of using the dryer when possible, teach the kids to turn off lights and appliances when not in use.

8. Shop smart
We've all heard the adage never shop when hungry, this is true. I will add a few to that. Shop when you're in a hurry! You're less likely to be distracted and buy unnecessary items or ones not on your list.  Don't take kids with you if at all possible.  Not only will the public at large be eternally grateful, but you will be less likely to be tempted by small people's choices.  Shop at the discount stores first.  Yes, this means Aldi and Lidl.  Did you know that may of their products are the same branded products you buy at the mainstream supermarkets?  For instance, the flour at Aldi is made by Odlums.  It's 1.29 for 2kg.  The EXACT SAME flour branded at Tesco will set you back 2.79.  No brainer methinks.  The same is true of many of their products and when you do 90% of your shop at Aldi or Lidl I dare you to spend over 100e, when a similar trolley at Tesco would easily be double that.  Look at the various shop websites each week and check the weekly deals.  Sometimes this means going to more than one shop but the money saved can be substantial.

9. Buy bulk when possible
Keep an eye out for products you buy on a regular basis.  If they are on sale it's worth stocking up.  Also keep an eye out for bigger packaging, sometimes you can save money by buying bigger packages.  Note I said sometimes... other times the shop knows you will make such an assumption and actually up charge for bigger packages.  Those little snacky cheeses are notorious for this.  Always check the per unit price and if it's not listed, whip out your phone and divide the total price by the number of units.  Check out the discount shops like Dealz and Cash and Carries that are popping up all over the place.  They are generally great for household products and bulk sizing.  I was able to get the huge box of Pampers for 12e back in Offaly which actually worked out cheaper than Aldi and Lidl alternatives.

'cooking' photo (c) 2006, mararie - license: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0/10. Cook from scratch
This may seem like a no brainer, but for many people it can also seem like a non-option  Two income families are often very busy and finding the time to cook can be hard indeed.  I would suggest looking into options like once-a-month-cooking and freezer cooking.  Also look at packing lunches versus eating out.  That coffee habit? Invest in a coffee grinder (about 10 euro) buy some beans and grind your own each morning for a cup of brew that will be better than any cafe. 

What tips can you guys add?  Is there a change you've made that has made a big difference to your spending?  I'd love to hear them!






Thursday, July 19, 2012

Messy Tasty Kiddy Fun: Making Truffles

"I'm bored" and "I'm hungry" seem to be favourite sentences around here of late.  I decided to tackle both problems when the girls had some friends over.  I let them make truffles. Pretty gourmet for kids, but this easy recipe is so simple that it's perfect for kids to have some fun with. You can play around with flavourings too adding orange or raspberry extract for fruity versions and you can definitely experiment with toppings. I asked if they wanted coconut but got a resounding "ewwwww!"  For adult versions you could add some grand marnier.



Easy Cream Cheese Truffles

  • 8 oz full fat cream cheese
  • 12oz dark chocolate, melted
  • 3 cups icing sugar
  • 1 tsp vanilla extract
  • Cocoa, icing sugar, sprinkles, coconut etc to decorate
Beat the cream cheese with a spatula until softened. Add in sugar and vanilla and beat until combined.  Stir in chocolate, it should start to thicken right away.  Once combined, refrigerate for 20 minutes to an hour.

Use a teaspoon and scoop out a spoonful of truffle mixture and roll into a ball in your hand.  Roll in topping of choice, eat immediately or refrigerate until serving. Enjoy!




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